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Elli Benaiah's avatar

What I always admire in your writing is the way observation arrives before interpretation. Your writing never forces meaning; it emerges quietly through birdsong, asparagus, cherry light, driving, and the slow return of confidence after grief. Happy you are steadying the ship.

NAOMI DUGUID's avatar

Big thanks Elli

Elizabeth Pizzinato's avatar

Beautifully said and so very true.

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Thank-you Elizabeth

Khaja Zafarullah's avatar

I must admit that I was a bit envious looking at the beautiful asparagus. In India we get these scrawny spear, more like broomsticks, and I miss the subtlety of the big spears with meat.

As always you inspire with your words, and I learn from your thoughts.

Giovanna Solimando's avatar

I’m so sorry for your loss, Naomi, and thank you for your beautiful words. Plants and the garden can really help sometimes. I lost my grandma last week, and my garden was the one place where I felt serene and relaxed.

NAOMI DUGUID's avatar

Thank-you for writing. And yes breathing in and out in a place of calm can be a respite. Warm thoughts to you as you grieve your grandmother.

Nancy Harmon Jenkins's avatar

No asparagus yet in Maine and no rhubarb in my garden, not yet at any rate, but I'll remember the Georgian sauce for later, in a few weeks inshallah. And I'm totally with you on Mothers' Day--I refuse to celebrate it, and trained my children not to celebrate.

NAOMI DUGUID's avatar

Big hugs Nancy. It's some consolation that theres a place where spring is even later!!!

Karen McLellan's avatar

You are a complete delight.

I love sitting next to you at singing.

I'm with you on abolishing the "Hallmark holiday" and all that goes with it.

And lamb chops, more lamb chops... and duck breast...and asparagus. XO🤗

NAOMI DUGUID's avatar

Thank-you so much

Elisabeth Luard's avatar

Rhubarb now nearly over in the UK - we must be well ahead of you this year (not always the way). Elderflowers now in bloom in London parks - food for free if you have a basket and scissors and don't look guilty. Do you make fritters and elderflower cordial over there, Naomi?

NAOMI DUGUID's avatar

You are way ahead of us. We're having an especially slow chilly spring, still too cold for bees. So sign of elderflower a yet; my small tree is just beginning to leaf out.

I remember making elderflower cordial with you in Wales. Have never done it here.

Elisabeth Luard's avatar

elderflower cordial rocks! Happy memories, beloved woman, and more to come.

Margie Gibson's avatar

The Turkish fruit and veg shop down the street from my home has small, green plums now—it’s an annual sign of spring here. I tried a few several years ago and found them impossibly sour—but I wonder if these are the plums used to make tkemali. I might try them again this year and try to make the sauce—although I like the idea of using rhubarb, too.

NAOMI DUGUID's avatar

Please let me know how it goes, whichever fruit you use!

Karen Burke's avatar

Naomi, we loved having you visit! Still smiling thinking about it 🥰.

NAOMI DUGUID's avatar

Your handmade chocolates were a hit here. You'll have plenty of orders!!!

Elizabeth Pizzinato's avatar

So much to love in this week’s reflection Naomi. I so appreciate your introspection and how generously you are taking us on your journey of grief. I’d like to believe that you can feel the community you’ve created here shoring you up with gentle hugs. Revel in the asparagus—I am so happy it is finally here! 💕

Oh and PS another vote of support for the abolition of MD!