Tashi indeed was a light, so brilliant, extremely funny and gentle. Nom you can hold on to his love and he'll always be with you, Dom and your dear feiends.
Thank you for generously sharing here how you are coping and feeling, and the ways your community has buoyed you. Work in progress indeed. Sending love.
I wrote to you separately as soon as I had the unhappy news so I'll just say here that I'm sending you and Dom mountains filled with love. I treasure the few moments in my life that I spent with Tashi when he was a sturdy (and very funny) little guy filled with so much curiosity and intelligence about the world around him. I hoped for another outcome but. . . life had other plans.
i am so sorry for the loss of Tashi for you and Dom, Naomi. Sending condolences and lighting some candles for you. I really appreciate what you mean about keeping hold of his sense of humour, I hope that you find moments that keep reminding you of that, bittersweet as they may be 💛
You're living the nightmare I've been fearing since the day(s) my children were born. I don't think there is any pain worse than losing a child. I remember bargaining in my head with the universe, in the beginning "just let me have them for at least two years," then "until they're teenagers," then "until they're adults." Which they are now, but the fear is still there.
You seem to be handling this with incredible grace, which doesn't surprise me. I know that you will find your way back to joy - especially since I'm sure that that's what your wonderful son would have wanted.
Beloved woman - thoughts and love. You'll get through it because there's no other choice. But you know that, anyway,
Love to you Elisabeth, who knows all this
Tashi indeed was a light, so brilliant, extremely funny and gentle. Nom you can hold on to his love and he'll always be with you, Dom and your dear feiends.
Dear Deb, thank-you. I remember our times in Laramie with our young kids...lovely
Thank you for sharing with us, Naomi. I am very sorry for the loss of Tashi, what wonderful photos of him. Sending you love and best wishes. x
Thank-you!
Oh my heart. Condolences and love. Our beloved dead, who ride on our shoulders ...
Yr right, I like the no-flip too, Blanca - a good depth of oil means you can spoon it over the yolk. Velazquez' "Old woman frying eggs" says it all.
I feel like I knew Tashi through you.
Cooking has always been restorative to me, and knowing how strong you are, you will find a path forward. Love always.
I have so few words for the loss of a child but do want to offer you heaps of love. I'm so sorry.
Oh, Nom, love you so much. This was beautiful.
Thank-you lovely woman
An unimaginable loss. I am so sorry. May you continue to find solace with good friends, sharing good food.
Thank you for generously sharing here how you are coping and feeling, and the ways your community has buoyed you. Work in progress indeed. Sending love.
Thank-you Pam. Love from many people is sustaining. A good reminder that we're part of a large web of care...❤️
I wrote to you separately as soon as I had the unhappy news so I'll just say here that I'm sending you and Dom mountains filled with love. I treasure the few moments in my life that I spent with Tashi when he was a sturdy (and very funny) little guy filled with so much curiosity and intelligence about the world around him. I hoped for another outcome but. . . life had other plans.
Thank-you Nancy. All love very welcome. ❤️🧡🧡
This takes my breath away. I am so sorry for your loss.
thank-you
I’m so sorry for your loss
i am so sorry for the loss of Tashi for you and Dom, Naomi. Sending condolences and lighting some candles for you. I really appreciate what you mean about keeping hold of his sense of humour, I hope that you find moments that keep reminding you of that, bittersweet as they may be 💛
Thank-you Sarah...🙏☀️
I’m so sorry, Naomi. Thinking of you in NYC and sending condolences.
Thank-you Charlotte ☀️
Oh Naomi, I'm so sorry.
You're living the nightmare I've been fearing since the day(s) my children were born. I don't think there is any pain worse than losing a child. I remember bargaining in my head with the universe, in the beginning "just let me have them for at least two years," then "until they're teenagers," then "until they're adults." Which they are now, but the fear is still there.
You seem to be handling this with incredible grace, which doesn't surprise me. I know that you will find your way back to joy - especially since I'm sure that that's what your wonderful son would have wanted.
Yes for sure that's the task with our kids: love them, learn from them, try not to mess them up, and try to repress our fears...☀️☀️